the most beautfiful baby in the whole world

My youngest daughter Kalindi was only 15 months when they took her from me and she was still breastfeeding, up to 6 times per day. Every time I would see her, she would cry and scream to be back with me, however the Local Authority twisted this and said is was me who was making her cry, anyone with any sense would see the complete absurdity of that scenario, except for the English Social Services that is.
However, that my daughter was often crying because Social Workers would bring her to see me when she was tired and needed to sleep. Sometimes she was so extremely tired she would just cry out loud; this would make me upset and I would terminate the contact. I did however request several times, for my daughter not to be brought into contact if she was tired, I was completely and totally ignored. In fact it was not until Pat from Family in Care, which is an English charity, became involved, that this changed. Only through her intervention was the time changed for me to see my daughter. (From 1.00pm to 10.00am). From that point forward, contact became infinitely more tolerable as my baby was no longer tired.

This duck is the toy that she likes the most, I bought many for her already and usually she carries it with her when she has to go. .


Always when I visit her, I bring her feta cheese with olives, two types of bread, smothie and pure fuit juice, all without sugar. Today , 17/09/14, I bought her a ball and other toys, but again she didn't play much with her toys. As always, she sat on my lap and drunk all the grape juice and ate the cheese and some bread.
Today as I usually do, I brought a picture of one of our 3 cats. She like it so much that she takes it home holding the picture.
Today she went away with the 2 little chiks inside each of her jackets' porckets.
Today, when she was about to go inside the car, she said: "Bye Bye Mama"." That was the first time she called me like that. Usually she says "mommy".
This word, mother, is the most beautiful word in the world.


This is a cot that is empty for almost a year. Waiting for my little baby to come to sleep by my side.


Kalindi 3 years old

3 years old

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KALINDI likes to take bath.


KALINDI is fishing a cat


Cat Abuse


KALINDI at 6 month old


The evidence in a criminal court is far superior to that in the family courts, but when it comes to adoption, there should be no difference at all. This is a fundamental failure and in fact that is where the root of where this problem lies.
Adoptions should be decided by a Jury, as is done in any criminal court whilst the evidence of Social Workers should be stringently monitored for inaccuracies and if any deliberate inaccuracies are found, then it should result in immediate dismissal of both the case and the Social Worker concerned. Where is the safeguard to prevent any Social Worker from being biased?
It is wholly unacceptable that children are removed into care based on corrupt evidence and even more unacceptable that Social Workers can use the cover of secrecy to lie in court.
The system is biased towards the professionals and as a result the adoptive process has become nothing more than a sham.

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